More than whether you’re an innie or an outie.
I’ve come across two videos recently that help to define human sexuality in a way that’s all inclusive. they both go well beyond the predominant binary, and manage to present models that include any variation you care to think about. I believe this is a healthier way of seeing one another, as it doesn’t try to cram the huge variety into two limiting and inaccurate definitions.
Tommy Speck: “What’s that?”
Hedwig: “It’s what I’ve got to work with.”